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Our story

From a match across 5,000 miles to the little fishing village where we’ll say “I do.”

The beginning of Julissa and Stefano’s story on Tinder

A match across 5,000 miles

We met on Tinder while Stefano was in Paris and Julissa was 5,000 miles away in Weslaco, Texas. What began as a match on a screen quickly became something neither distance nor borders could contain.

Julissa and Stefano together in Tulum

One week in Tulum

Nine months later, we both flew to Tulum to finally meet in person. We spent one unforgettable week together—and somewhere between the beach, the long conversations and the adventure of it all, we fell in love.

Julissa and Stefano in Paris

Paris becomes home

Julissa came to Paris to spend a year as an au pair. One year became a life: she decided to stay, enrolled in a neuroscience master’s program at La Sorbonne, and Paris became our home together.

Julissa and Stefano traveling in Pisa, Italy

Falling for Italy

We traveled across Europe, but Italy was always the place calling us back. We returned again and again, discovering new cities, coastlines and corners of the country—each trip giving us another reason to love it.

Julissa, Stefano and Imelda together in Paris

A Parisian summer with Imelda

Stefano met Julissa’s mother, Imelda, when she came to spend a month with us in Paris. That first visit became a tradition, and every summer since, Paris has been hers for a whole month too.

Julissa and Imelda visiting Sardinia

Sardegna

Julissa and Imelda visited Sardegna for the first time, discovering Stefano’s mother’s birthplace—and the place she calls her favorite on earth. It became another piece of Italy woven into our shared story.

Stefano welcomed by Julissa’s family in Texas

Welcome to Texas, Stef

Stefano went to Texas for the first time at Christmas and met Julissa’s entire family. From the very beginning, everyone welcomed him with the kind of warmth that made Texas feel a little like home.

Julissa and Stefano discovering Tonnara di Scopello

The Tonnara

On one of our Italian vacations, we stumbled upon Scopello, a beautiful fishing village in Sicily, and discovered its historic Tonnara. We had no idea then that this would become the place where we would one day get married.

Julissa and Stefano celebrating their French civil union

Officially us

With our PACS, we became an official French household—united through a French civil union and ready for the next chapter of the life we were building together.

Julissa and Stefano in their first home in Paris

Our first home

We bought our first home together in Paris. It was more than an apartment: it was the first place that was entirely ours, filled with plans, memories and the ordinary moments that make a life.

Stefano proposing to Julissa on a beach in Mexico

Back to Mexico

During a trip to Mexico, Stefano proposed to Julissa on the beach. It brought us full circle—back to the country where we first met in person, now choosing the rest of our lives together.

Julissa and Stefano celebrating Halloween with friends

A Halloween to remember

A memorable Halloween party with all our friends: costumes, laughter and one of those joyful nights that becomes part of the story simply because everyone we love was there.

Julissa graduating from her neuroscience master’s program

Mastered it

Julissa graduated from her neuroscience master’s program at La Sorbonne—a proud ending to years of hard work, and another beautiful beginning in the life we chose to build in Paris.

Julissa and Stefano planning their wedding together on their computers

Planning our forever

Side by side, with far too many tabs open, we’re planning the celebration that will bring everyone we love to Sicily.